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PLEASURE PURSUIT
"If it feels good, just do it"
Self indulgent, greedy, lustful
A husband pressures his tired wife for sex
A boy eats his sister's pice of cake
CHRONIC INDULGENCE
Chronic overeating
Being generally narcissistic and self-serving
Promiscuity
RIGID
"I always" "I never"
Closed minded, inflexible
Bitter woman distrusts all men
Prideful man must always do thing his way
CHRONIC AVOIDANCE
Avoiding relationship & its responsibilities
A man ignores his wife's complaints
Shy girl avoids people
PAIN AVOIDANCE
"If it's uncomfortable or difficult, forget it."
LAZY COWARDLY
Running from difficult situations
Submitting to foolish peer pressure
Child won't do chores
WHIMSICAL AVOIDANCE
Being honest unless it's uncomfortable
Not defending a friend who's under attack
Fair weather friend
WHIMSICAL
"I do what I want when I want"
FLAKEY UNRELIABLE
Blowing hot and cold
Broke a promise "Didn't feel like it"
In and out of relationships
WHIMSICAL INDULGENCE
Promised a friend help but watched a movie instead
Spontaneous hurtful remarks